"best friend" issues to keep my mouth shut or put her in her place???
So my "best friend" of 6yrs is slowly going nuts!! 1st she has a huge fit over not being the person to plan my baby shower. Which eventually I give in and say OK. If its that important to u then we can do it together. Well its been a huge mess to say the least. (Not even gonna get into all of that) but 2days after the invites were mailed DH says O, I forgot these 3 ppl can we get the invites sent in time? Sure we had extra invites no biggy. I apologize to her for MY mistake and ask her to send out 3more invites at which point she FREAKS out about how much money she has spent and how much money 3 more ppl will cost. Then quits speaking to me for 2 days and ditches me a few days later for our lunch date (without informing me in advance!) Well she apologizes and the next day informs me she's coming to see me. OK fine whatever... she then shows up at my front door with a man I happen to know is married w/3 kids and introduced him as her new boyfriend. OK really! But I keep my mouth shut. Well they sit on my couch for 3 hours and are all but making out and out of no where he very clearly looks at her n says lets go make a baby. I don't wanna wait to knock u up any more! So they leave, thank God!!!! I'm so happy my hubby didn't see this, he wouldst kicked out in a very rude way. But then she txts me and asks what I think of him. So I tell her I don't like that u sat making out with a married man on.my couch and as a married woman I feel ur moving way to fast with a man who is married. I felt I was being polite as possible being that I wanted to vomit on them. But now she's acting as if I'm in the wrong. If ur so.happy with this man then y does my opinion matter any way?!?!
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@roseisamommynow trust me if she wasn't planning my baby shower her @SS woulda been sitting on the curb. I feel that she was very disrespectful of me n my believes just by bringing him into my home, knowing how I feel about it. Needless to say she is known for cheating on her now ex husband and past BF. and this is the 2nd married man she's been with in a year.
Uhgg! I just don't know how to handle her drama any more. And honestly I don't think I should have to.
The other was doing what ur friend was doing in a way. Except she wasn't dating married men. She was dating...err barely legal boys. I mean she's only 20 so it wasn't too bad, but damn girl don't be all ima marry this man after 2wks of dating and try to make a 16-17yo boy b the new step daddy of ur 5yo kid.
Im sorry shes putting you in that situation.but honestly that's annoying. One of my good friends is kind of like that in the whole drama department. i just keep my distance now. Its stressful.
Dating boys that young!!! That's just crazy I can see a yr maybe 2 younger but if their still in high school They are off limits!!!