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MikeandRonAdopt

MikeandRonAdopt

waiting for our miracle...

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  • mrsrocketfield1221
    What a miracle u now have two babies... They're are such lucky little guys. :) now update this status! Haha so so so happy to see this news!!!!
    January 2012
  • Mybabe
    How is parenting coming along for you guys just thought about you three and wanted to say HI!!!
    October 2011
    • MikeandRonAdopt
      MikeandRonAdopt
      Hi Hun, We are doing GREAT! We are all so happy. Ellie is such a happy baby and is just adored by everyone. Our little dream come true... ;)
  • HUPE23_1
    Wanted to check in and see how y'all are likeing being daddys i hope everything us going well update us soon
    September 2011
    • MikeandRonAdopt
      MikeandRonAdopt
      We are good. Sorry an update is so long overdue. We couldn;t be happoer. Ellie is overall very healthy. She has some of the more minor issues with having been born addicted (wanting to be held constantly primarily) which we are more than happy to oblige. We love her to pieces. We just had her welcome to the family party at a local restaraunt. We had so much fun. She is so loved by so many people...
  • Excitedtobe
    I saw the family pics! Congrats she's beautiful, and it looks like she fits in your arms perfectly ;)
    August 2011
  • stella
    was thrilled to see your wish came true. Congrats good luck you'll be great dads
    August 2011
  • KrazymomofAdrian
    Gspot stupid phone I meant happy.
    August 2011
  • KrazymomofAdrian
    So gspot for you guys again. Contrasts a hundred times over you deserve it. Saw the pic on facebook you make such a lovely family :)
    August 2011
  • soon2b3
    Someone posted they seen a pic??? I would love to see
    August 2011
  • soon2b3
    I was wondering if you two do not have a female close friend that would be willing to carry a child for y'all. Maybe even this way one of you could have some genetic input? I also think it would be so rewarding for y'all to experience the journey of appts and delivery.
    I feel just awful for y'all. Good luck
    August 2011
    • MikeandRonAdopt
      MikeandRonAdopt
      We have a number of friends who have offered. Surrogacy is tough. It's very expensive... Between medical testing, insemination, finding an egg donor (because you don't usually use your surrogates eggs). While all that is great for some people... it's a little too much for us, PLUS you can spend 50k+, and while we're ok financially, we don't have 50k laying around anywhere. lol. Lastly, even though this journey has been SO tough... with us being a family that just cannot make babies, there is something that feels very right about adoption.
    • soon2b3
      soon2b3
      I understand. :-/ well I hope y'all catch your lil angel soon.
  • mrsrocketfield1221
    Any more news on the mom you had posted about recently? I'm sorry I had no addiction info... but hoping things are looking good!
    August 2011
    • MikeandRonAdopt
      MikeandRonAdopt
      Nothing Yet. It's down to 3 families... Us, a single mom and a straight married couple. She is due 8/25 and with the heroine exposure could verywell go early. SO, even if this is another close call for us, atleast we won;t have too long to wait to find out. Dont worry ... if something happens, my preglies will be among the first to know :)
    • mrsrocketfield1221
      mrsrocketfield1221
      well... i guess what's meant to be will be... but i will be praying that the baby is pretty healthy and hoping that she picks you fabulous daddies!! ;)
    • MikeandRonAdopt
      MikeandRonAdopt
      thanks hunny!
  • ScarlettsMama
    Hi, just wanna tell you that i think its amazing what you guys are doing to become parents, so many children & babies out there need good people to love them and i truly hope you get your miracle baby... *** love & blessings ***
    August 2011
    • MikeandRonAdopt
      MikeandRonAdopt
      Thank you very much!!!! :) It's been a LONG road and we're so ready for it to be over.. lol
  • MikeandRonAdopt
    waiting for our miracle...
    July 2011
  • Neek
    Love the profile pic!
    July 2011
    • MikeandRonAdopt
      MikeandRonAdopt
      thank you !!!! It's at a friends wedding (on a boat) about 2 months ago.. FYI.. 20 minutes after this pic was taken ... a bird pooped on my head! lmao
    • mrsrocketfield1221
      mrsrocketfield1221
      Bah hahaha!!!! Don't they say that's good luck? Ever watched under the Tuscan sun?!?
  • bigtalkingtori
    I just wanted to let you know, you are doing an amazing thing. I'd like to think that all of this waiting both of you are doing is worth it. Whoever it is, they're meant to be yours! The perfect little one will fall into your arms someday. Stay strong and very much luck to you both!
    July 2011
  • lilbun915
    Hey I just stumbled across your profile and id love to hear about your journey in trying to adopt. where are you from? All the support in the world from me :)
    July 2011
    • MikeandRonAdopt
      MikeandRonAdopt
      Hey There, We live in NJ. We've been approved and waiting to be selected by a 'birthmom; for about 21 months now. We've had a couple close calls including a really bad one just a couple weeks ago. We 'advertise' on a couple different social neworking sites. If you're on facebook, you should check us out @ faceboook.com/HelpUsAdopt

      We truly cannot wait to have a child. We have so much to offer and know that our kids will have truly happy and amazing lives. Thanks for your support. Having support from friends... old and new... really helps. :)
  • 3rdangelontheway
    hey i don't know you on here but i just saw you on one of the discussions and i just wanted to wish ya'll the best on trying to adopt... you seem so sweet from the things that i have read on here and i feel like who ever god has in store to be your child will be a very lucky and blessed one. i think you will be great parents and i wish you luck hun! keeping you in my thoughts and prayers!! :-)
    July 2011
    • MikeandRonAdopt
      MikeandRonAdopt
      thank you very much. we need all the good thoughts and prayers we can get!! :)
  • MikeandRonAdopt
    Feeling so hopeless...
    July 2011
    • morganpatrice
      morganpatrice
      Dont feel that way. You will be blessed with a baby soon enough.
    • MikeandRonAdopt
      MikeandRonAdopt
      thanks hun....
    • morganpatrice
      morganpatrice
      And i live in Kansas and there are a couple girls here thinking of adoption. I will keep you updated and try my hardest to help you out.
    • MikeandRonAdopt
      MikeandRonAdopt
      thank you VERY much...
  • MikeandRonAdopt
    Waiting for our miracle...
    July 2011
  • MikeandRonAdopt
    Sometimes there are just no words...
    June 2011
  • MikeandRonAdopt
    Waiting as patiently as possible for our miracle
    June 2011
  • soon2b3
    I want to wish y'all the best on your adoption journey. I feel it takes a lot of love to be a good parent and from what I've read y'all would be great!
    June 2011
    • MikeandRonAdopt
      MikeandRonAdopt
      thank you very much! We cannot wait to be blessed with a little one. We are so ready and hope our journey comes to an end soon. Thanks for the well wishes!! :)
  • MikeandRonAdopt
    Why if someone is leaning toward placing their baby for adoption would they just out and out ignore us when we try to reach out to them? No one owes us anything but common courtesy of a response would be nice... I'll never get some people.
    June 2011
    • ashley_smashley
      ashley_smashley
      I dont think parents teach common courtesy to their children anymore...its sad really! I am sorry this journey is taking so long for you both! You really deserve a little one to spoil!
    • MikeandRonAdopt
      MikeandRonAdopt
      i just don;t get why if you're considering placing your baby for adoption and you kindof know us on here and know that we're decent people why you wouldn't consider us.
    • ashley_smashley
      ashley_smashley
      Its sad really...some people are just plain rude. If you ever need a surrogate then I will gladly lend you my uterus! lol
    • MikeandRonAdopt
      MikeandRonAdopt
      lol... thanks hun.
    • MikeandRonAdopt
      MikeandRonAdopt
      Surrogacy is even more expensive than adoption. We've already paid for the adoption, we just do as much as possible to get our names out there bc our Agency doesnt do nearly enough advertising, thus out 20 month+ wait...
    • mrsrocketfield1221
      mrsrocketfield1221
      I'll never get a lot of people... so sad.. but if they're going to be like that then they really dont seem like the kind of person you'd want to trust in with an adoption. A lack of respect at the start is a good indication of more to come... which you certainly don't need!
    • MikeandRonAdopt
      MikeandRonAdopt
      It just doesnt make any sense to us. I know we're all really strangers on here, but you can read peoples posts and get a feel for who they are as people, whereas going to an Attorney, you'll get matched up with complete strangers who you really know little to nighting about.
  • MikeandRonAdopt
    Feeling hopeless....
    June 2011
  • awhaley28540
    I know we have never talked but I think it is awesome that you and your partner are adopting. My uncle and his partner adopted 3 little boys. Those boys are their world
    June 2011
    • MikeandRonAdopt
      MikeandRonAdopt
      Thank you!!! Hearing stories like that give us hope.
  • mommyfor3
    I have a weird question.... when you see the different post about pooping and vagina questions does it gross you out? Sorry had to ask lol
    June 2011
    • MikeandRonAdopt
      MikeandRonAdopt
      Nah... It takes a lot to gross me out. We have all kinds of friends... Ron especially has a million and one girlsfriends, so topics like that aren't an issue. Plus, if we adopt a girl we have to be open to talking about that kindof stuff if need be ;)
    • mommyfor3
      mommyfor3
      I pray that you guys get a baby soon! You sound like you will be great parents!
    • MikeandRonAdopt
      MikeandRonAdopt
      Thanks ladies. Just please keep us in mind if you should run into a mom-to-be who is considering adoption. We need all the help we can get. Have a GREAT weekend! :)
  • mrsrocketfield1221
    :) just wanted to stop in and say Hello!! i can't wait to hear of your good news one of these days... STAY STRONG MY FRIENDS!!!
    June 2011
    • MikeandRonAdopt
      MikeandRonAdopt
      thank you... we're in kindof a funk right now, feeling like our miracle will never happen but all the support on here really does help! ;)
    • mrsrocketfield1221
      mrsrocketfield1221
      I know what u mean, I do. I realize its different situation but the overall picture of That blessing is the same! I know its hard... just try to lean on each other and be one another's strength! One day at a time... ;) I'm here!!
  • Landynplus1momma
    You guys are absolutley adorable together <3 if I ever come across anyone looking even considering adoption I will recommend you guys :) good luck and remember having good hearts always pays off I know your time will come soon xoxo
    June 2011
    • MikeandRonAdopt
      MikeandRonAdopt
      Thank you very much. We have a wonderful relationship and so much love and security to offer a little one. We just cannot wait to start that next chapter of our families life. Thanks again! :)
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    June 2011
  • MikeandRonAdopt
    Just waiting for our miracle...
    June 2011
  • MikeandRonAdopt
    We have a loving home, security, a bright future filled with happiness and family.
    What we're missing is a little one to complete our family.
    June 2011