help!
I'm helping my friend plan her babyshower for a boy. N she has no one else but me! She told me that her family didn't want to help her. So I offered her my help. And now she told me that her sister is bitching about me helping cause im friend n only family are suppose to help! Like come on dude really!.
She is not telling me that she doesn't want me to help her but I dnt want to do everything n then at the end go n to have a bunch of girls or women dogging me u know. Ugh idk I just need a peace of mind n keep on helping her. Or do I just back out.
N if I stay any pointers?
She is not telling me that she doesn't want me to help her but I dnt want to do everything n then at the end go n to have a bunch of girls or women dogging me u know. Ugh idk I just need a peace of mind n keep on helping her. Or do I just back out.
N if I stay any pointers?
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What i would do is ask her. I would say "Do you still want me to help, or would you rather have your sister help you? Whatever you want Im ok with, i just want this babyshower to be special for you." Then let her tell you.
Its just I dnt want to help her n half way for her to bring in her sister n everything get messed up. U know. @perly
Screw what her family has to say. At least you took it upon yourself to help her knowing that it wasn't your responsibility to do so. Like i said, as long as you know in your heart that you did the right thing, for as long as you could and that it made a difference... don't worry about anything or anyone else. People now a days can't be pleased, so why try.