Hey, it looked like your discussion was on its way to getting shut down so I thought I'd just send ya a comment. I'm sorry to hear about your husband. I am going to school for Psychology and plan on specializing in PTSD and addiction, working mainly with veterans and active military members. If there is one thing I have learned... it is to not give up. The success of someone recovering from PTSD comes solely from the amount of support that they have. Those who have a support system have a significantly larger chance of recovering... you just have to be patient and understanding. I am not saying it doesn't hurt by anyyyyy means so please don't take it that way. I couldn't even begin to imagine that feeling. All I am saying is that if you love him, do not give up on him. You can do it from a distance but let him know that you will be there with him every step of the way. I hope everything works out for you and I wish you the best.