three_cats_n_a_baby
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Thanks @janet_2011 lol tge sunshine in florida would sort me out for sure! dreary old england does nothing for me x
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And it would be nice if he said where shall we go today or lets go here, I feel I have to ask him to stay home then justify it.
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@janet_2011 he does to alot round the house to be fair on him and he works 9-5 which is why he feels if he wants to gp do things at the weekend its ok but meanwhileim left holding the baby pretty much 24/7 which I love but I am exhausted and then no…
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#blessedtxmom glad im not the pnly one, my friends are all nmiles away and dont have kids, I have fMily here but they are so opinionated I cant really talk to them x
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Thanks @janet_2011 I just feel like the nanny that should look after baby, tidy and turn tricks, he spends most his spare time out on his bike, hes at movies right now but when it suits him we have sex, now its not just me that can see that is a bit…
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@blessedtxmom thank you, its weird I walked everywhere when he was born now I find it hard to get mitivated to get out the house, its weird I go to a few groups and have loads of fun with baby but I think I find it hard not really having any friends…
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@janet_2011 if we do othrr things he finishes even quicker and gets more annoyed, if he does hand thingson me he just looks bored. Sorry tmi. Just want it to be fun and normal! X
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Dam phone. @janet_2011 you are right I need to get out more just need that boost I think maybe when I stop breastfeedung things will get easier, I loved sex before and now I feel like 99% of the time I eould happily go without, hormones?? @mrs4c t…
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@dadof2n1togo thank u, you too. I know its hard for men too its just hard to explain how crap it feels too. It puts so much pressure on me too when he gets annoyed @armahnismommy I usually nap when bubs does but hardly get anything done and little…
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Sorry for typos I have fat fingers and a small phone and it woulnt let me back to edit, hopeu can make sense of it! Should have said I have very low self esteem at the moment and zero sex drive at night and hubby out all day.
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Thanks @starrxoxo9 we dont have any specialist stores here either so will hppefully get better with a stronger one next time, cheers :)
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@starrxoxo9 thanks for your help, I cant post a pic as my phone is rubbish and laptop broken :( my hair normally hoes nice and blonde, gwen stefaniesque but just wont shift this now tho does look a bit better after a couple of washes and I have some…
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Id say maybe 4 its mousey and I am very pale! @starrxoxo9 :)
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Thanks bexiewexie :) @starrxoxo9 yes just a box colour, cant afford hairdresser at the moment unfortunately :(
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Thanks guys @mommyfor3 yeah one I used yesterday said if ends were lighter then to put all on at once, last one I did roots first then rest, its so annoying, looks awful this morning and its,my bday :(
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Thanks guys, we have a while then he is 15 pound shorty! :)
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Is it not just acid reflux? Do they use a milk thickener? Mine is breast fed and I give thickener with water twice a day or it all comes up! :)
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@megaroo I am so sorry for you but alsp so glad to hear that cos everyone I talk to at goups just brag about their perfectbabies sleeping through the night and I am beggining to think I am doing something wrong. Cant imagine being pregnant too, u ar…
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I was thinking of getting one but do u kbow what age they can use them til cos he is 6m already x
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Thanks good idea @ourlittlenugget I just sold a bag of old books I found dumped and got over 100 cos they were vintage! And thanks everyone this is wht I needed to hear :)
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@LilSugarsMomma thanks i should think he will be, well hope so! its all about the routine i need to sort myself out!! :)
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@Ourlittlenugget i hope your group are right :) he did just suddenly gt interested inn everything! i have cut what i can but i need to make 450 pounds a month just to pay for the bills as hubbys pay doesnt cover it and unfortunately we have a loan …
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@Kimberly4411 exactly! I dont want to leave him but gonna have to try something or its going to be a massive blow to us both! I literally havent been apart from him since he was born and my me time consists of hubby holding him while i get to wash a…
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@Kimberly4411 thanks for that :) i think its just cos the weeks r flying by but i suppose hes got nearly his whole llfe to live again before then so will be different but i cant help panic! x
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It just seems messed up to pay someone else to bring up my baby i wish i didnt have to :( Also i will be earning about £50 a day but daycare is about £30 a day so anything more im not even going to really gonna earn anything its so hard! My mil was …
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p.s - he wont hardly go in his pram, always needs carrying or putting in sling unless he is asleep so its hard to do things on my own.
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Oh my :( poor girl and poor baby surely at nine she cant knowingly be having sex for the right reasons, this is so sad and even worse that she isnt the youngest!!
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Wow my birth sounds exactly the same as yours, took a good 8 weeks for bleeding to stop, really thought I was prolapsing and ciuld feel sumthing down there and asked about it at 6 week check. They jyst said to do the pelvic excersises and they reall…
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Ooh @starrxoxo9 there is hope for me yet then!! Ill hold out on the shoe clear out :)
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Yeah I wouldnt sink to her level, you have won by not fighting bacl already and you gonna be in her daughters life you cant go round decking her mother lol